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  1. I’m headed to Puerto Vallarta in March for a wedding. I’ll be in the midst of Ironman training and am worried about training while down there. My hubby is worried about my safety while in Mexico. How safe did you feel? Would you feel comfortable running/walking off resort by yourself?

    Also, I know how you feel about the job search and I can empathize. I was out of a job for about 3 months last year and it was so depressing to get excited about a job and not get the position. Something good will come along for you though!! Keep your head up!!!!

    • Laura

      It really depends on where you are staying – we were in the marina area and there were great long streets that I’d feel comfortable running along, but we drove through other areas that I’d be unsure of. The boardwalk/Malecon would be great for running if you went early enough in the morning. We used the bus system for ~50 cents/ride and you can take that downtown. Overall, I felt safe in the Marina and downtown, but it might be hard to find more than a few miles of good running streets in the main areas.

      Thanks for your comment!

  2. jenny

    Please hear me out – this is genuine feedback that I hope you will use.
    Most people who are having a hard time finding a job wouldn’t even think of doing the things you do, because they can’t afford it. Trying to feed their families and making ends meet is their priority – often times wondering if they will even be able to do that. So while you post about these lavish vacations and numerous meals out every week, and then end by complaining about how hard your life is, maybe you should actually step back and think about how your life really isn’t so bad. Trust me…it could be much worse.

    • Laura

      Yes, I totally agree!! I am beyond fortunate! I’ve never claimed that my life is hard, and my post wasn’t about that – it was expressing sadness over a lost opportunity. Just because my husband has a good job, doesn’t mean I can’t feel frustrated about my own career.

    • Rachel

      Jenny, I know it can be really easy to slip in jealousy over looking at these amazing pictures. I work hard, my boyfriend works hard, and we’ve never been on a vacation like this- I’m definitely jealous of her getaway. But don’t let that jealousy turn to negativity. I’ve never read Laura complain about her life or say that her life is hard. Just because someone’s experiences are different than our own doesn’t mean the need for empathy goes out the window. We can call relate to the disappointment that Laura wrote about.

  3. Abby

    I hope that despite the negativity in a lot of these comments that you remember there are plenty of people reading your blog that truly support you and want to see you succeed. Unfortunately when you’re honest on the internet about both the good and the bad in your life you’re bound to face some criticism.

    Keep your chin up and stay positive and I’m sure some of these missed opportunities will lead to something that’s an even better fit for you in the future.

  4. Lauren

    Looks like such a fun trip! May I ask where you stayed? I was in a similar situation when I was your age. Move to a new city, husband a well paid MBA, me jobless. I faced so much jealousy and had people actually say to me, “I could never stand being home all day doing nothing.” My supportive friend’s reply…”well, they’ll never have the opportunity anyhow.” Enjoy your life, Laura! These are special days before the kids and chaos arrive.

  5. Shannon

    As I am reading this, it is 3 degrees and snowing outside. Ew. I absolutely LOVE that you and Matt make the most of your free time! I have kind of an unpredictable job (probably similar to Matt), and I need to be better at jumping on a plane when I have a chance. Thanks for reminding me to enjoy life and be a little more spontaneous! Also, as someone that has dragged my significant other to three different cities during my twenties (only 26) for grad school and jobs, I wholeheartedly understand the struggle that you are going through. But just like 2013 was a great year for you personally, I have no doubt that 2014 will be your year professionally! And in the meantime, keep doing awesome things and telling us about them.

    • Laura

      It’s a bit dated and the rooms are basic, but the view was incredible and the staff were great. It’s a great value, especially because we got a resort credit every day that covered our lunches and drinks. It’s not within walking distance to downtown, but we used the bus system for 50 cents/ride and took cabs if it was late at night. Taking all of that into consideration, I would definately recommend it!

  6. Jill

    Hey Laura! I’ve been reading on and off for a while, and I just want to commend you – you seem very classy and give such thoughtful, objective responses, regardless of whether someone is possibly being harsh or not. Unfortunately, that seems pretty rare these days, and I just wanted to say something because I’m not sure that I’ve ever commented before- your demeanor is extremely admirable 😉 Good luck to you on your job search!

  7. Lynn San Francisco,CA

    Hi Laura!

    I love these photos of your trip and, of course, the droolworthy pics of the food you ate :-) I enjoy your blog and have to say I personally could not deal with the negativity that gets thrown your way, which is probably why I never started a blog. I commend you for being honest and open in the face of all of that. Keep on bloggin’ as you do and keepin’ it real! Oh and about the job hunt….hang in there. I know you will find something that is absolutely meant for you :-)

  8. Jenns

    I believe I hve seen all successful bloggers undergo a lit of criticism (remember Kath 5-6 years ago?) maybe this means your blog is heading for fame?! In the meantime I agree with a previous comment about enjoying this time before kids and chaos!

    • Laura

      Perhaps! But sadly, I think a lot of those critics are the same ones who love to attack Kath and have found their way to TBT:(

  9. Karen

    Keep your head up on the job search, though it may be tough now you may look back on this journey wiser and stronger! While you search it may be a perfect opportunity to volunteer in your new community, maybe for an after school program or something that you are passionate about. :)

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