Dos and Don’ts for New Parents

Life Parenting Ramblings

The less important advice I wish I had received before I had kids:)

  1. Get an upholstered headboard. You will be thankful you have something soft to lean against in the middle of the night because you will be awake in the middle of the night for various reasons for years.
  2. Never get too comfortable with a sleep schedule. It will likely change.
  3. Never buy white anything – your clothes, their clothes, household items…just don’t do it.
  4. Similar to introducing fruits before vegetables, don’t introduce ‘kid’ music before adult music because you can never go back.
  5. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket when it comes to vacations. Aka, don’t plan one big expensive trip. Someone will get sick or have  sleep issues or be grumpy and you’ll wish you could try again.
  6. Get your hair on at least an every other day, if not every 2nd day, hair washing schedule.
  7. Find a way to de-stress that doesn’t involve alcohol or leaving your house.
  8. Be prepared to go swimming in very cold temperatures and in the rain.
  9. Never ever let anyone in the household get too hungry.
  10. Get a nice thick bathroom rug that you really enjoy sitting on for bath time and potty training. A stash of snacks is not a bad idea either (see #9).

What else?

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  • Emily
    March 3, 2020 at 6:12 pm

    Never leave the house without snacks.
    Never say never.

  • Mom
    March 4, 2020 at 9:30 am

    This is great! The start of a parenting book?

  • Susan
    March 4, 2020 at 9:43 am

    Lots of good advice! You’re doing a great job!

    • Laura
      March 4, 2020 at 9:13 pm

      Thanks:)

  • Kath
    March 4, 2020 at 9:56 am

    HAHA!! These are great.

  • Jessica
    March 4, 2020 at 11:05 am

    Recognize and appreciate the peaceful moments. It’s okay that they don’t last, but be sure to fully take them in!

  • Ali
    March 4, 2020 at 6:06 pm

    Love these! Do you have a nice thick bath mat you recommend?

    • Laura
      March 4, 2020 at 9:13 pm

      Nothing specific – I’ve found all mine at Homegoods!

  • Jordan
    March 4, 2020 at 9:40 pm

    Such a great list- I would add:

    Everything is a phase. The good and the bad! Don’t get too comfortable because things are always changing 🙂

    • Laura
      March 5, 2020 at 3:53 pm

      Yes!

  • Sara
    March 8, 2020 at 3:56 am

    You seem to not enjoy your kids much and that makes me sad for you. It’s always framed negatively. Would you be ok with them reading all of your posts one day?

    • Laura
      March 8, 2020 at 5:06 pm

      11. Never criticize other moms – we should be lifting each other up and not putting each other down.

      And yes, I hope to pass along what is supposed to be a humorous list to my daughters when they have kids some day!

  • KateG
    March 21, 2020 at 8:47 pm

    Hi,This article is so useful for me about new parents
    good job and thank you!!!